
In a case like the "random hot clerk" situation, the absolute worst thing that can happen is she laughs in your face and tells you to go kill yourself. The best thing that could happen is she says yes, and she turns out to be the woman of your dreams.
So on one hand you have heartless woman who laughs at you, on the other you have the woman of your dreams. Let's examine the worst case first.
You ask her out, she laughs at you in front of the other customers and employees...then tells you to piss off. Ok, what next? You leave, and most likely never see the woman again in your life. Chances are you will never see the other people in the store ever again either. So what did you lose? Nothing. A few random people whom you don't know and will never see again, saw you get turned down by a woman. They will all forget about it by the end of the day, and none of them will remember you in a week. So why be embarrassed to try? You literally have nothing to lose.
The problem most men have when it comes to situations like this is their own fear. Men tend to over think situations and go much further with them in their mind. I know what you are thinking when you think about asking her out. You think of how embarrassed you would be if she said no, and how everybody would laugh at you for years to come...and you would forever be known as the guy who got turned down at the coffee shop.
Well I got news for you, nobody cares. Nobody will remember you anyway...so go ahead and embarrass yourself, nobody will remember anyway. So you have nothing to lose.
Every man has been turned down before, so it's not like anybody has the upper hand in the "asking a girl out" category. We have all been there at some point. So don't worry about it.
Another thing I would recommend, start being loud in public. As anybody who has ever spent more than 5 minutes with me can attest, I LOVE to be the center of attention...if it
is in a crowded mall, or a one on one conversation. I want ALL eyes on me. So I make sure I put myself at the center of attention. The ONLY reason I do this is because I am horribly shy. I am one of the shyest people on the planet, I am insecure, and I think to myself that everybody is laughing at me...and everybody hates me. So to fight that natural fear, I put myself out there in the spotlight. It is a wonderful feeling, trust me.
I am sure that most of the time I walk away from someone they think to themselves "Man, that dude was annoying." But I don't care....I will never see those people again in my life...and if I do, I won't remember them anyway...so it makes no difference what they think of me.
Try it sometime. When you are in a store, just say whatever comes to mind. Last week I asked the clerk at Target if she had any weed she could sell me....and when she said no, I asked her if her manager would have any on him to sell. I have answered store phones on many occasions, and I have helped customers in random stores...just for fun. A few weeks ago I talked a guy at SAMS into buying the larger entertainment center, and told him that we would help bring it to his car. Then as an employee walked past, I looked at his nametag, called him by name, and addressed him like I owned the place. "Hey Bill, this gentleman is interested in this entertainment center, could you please go get a dolly and help him bring it to his car?" The kid just looked at me oddly, then said "Sure, no problem...I will be right back sir."
It's the crazy, fun stuff that helps you overcome your inhibitions and fears. Try it sometime. Go watch Ferris Bueller's Day off. That movie helped me get out of my shell in middle school. I just said "Man, I wish I could be like that." Then I decided to just go ahead and do it.
Things like that helped me get over my fear of rejection from women. Once you stop caring what random people think of you, it is much easier talking to women.
Plus remember; worst possible out come was her laughing at you? Well, even if that is what she is thinking inside....most women won't act on it. If she is laughing on the inside, she is still going to give you some nice brush off line. Typically it is "I am sorry, I have a boyfriend." No woman is going to embarrass you...she will let you down softly.
Now that we have taken care of the whole fear issue...let's address the woman in question.
Remember a few things. Do NOT use corny jokes and innuendo, women HATE that. Every woman on the planet has heard every stupid joke, every stupid pickup line, and every stupid innuendo. So stay away from those. Just be yourself and be straight forward.
Also, be confident. Have you ever heard people talk about how a mans wedding ring attracts women? How once they got married, it seemed like women started paying attention to him more? That isn't because of the ring. It is because of the confidence that comes with the ring.
When you are single and you see a pretty woman, you can read it on your face what you are thinking. Women can practically smell it on you. When you are married, or have a serious relationship, you don't look at those women the same. You think you do...but you don't. Instead of looking at them like "Man she is pretty...I wish she was mine." With a ring on you look at them like "Man she is hot." That's it. You don't have those inner puppy dog eyes, because you don't "need" her. You admire her, and then move on.
Women pick up on that...I don't know how, but they do. When you are confident...NOT
COCKY, just confident, women respond to that better. And you can't fake it.
You can't walk in like you are God's gift to women, they will see through that too. You simply need to convince yourself that you do not NEED her. You need to have this train of thought. "If she wants to go out with me, cool. If she doesn't want to go out with me, that's cool too." You shouldn't care too much about what she will say. Don't worry about it. You know the saying never cry over spilt milk? That basically means, don't spend so much time worrying about things you can't control. You can't control what she will say, or what she thinks. So why worry about it?
Now, the next time you see her, simply ask her if she would like to go out and grab something to eat sometime. NEVER ASK A WOMAN TO THE MOVIES!!
For starters, you learn nothing about a woman at a movie. You spend too much time sitting next to someone you are NOT getting to know. Movies are the WORST first date. Lunch or dinner is usually best. I say go for lunch, it makes a woman feel more comfortable. Dinner is usually followed by the end of the date, which makes woman think of the awkward "Can I come up?" and end of first date kiss. Lunch is typically followed by sitting there talking, then the two of you going your separate ways to hang out with your respective friends. That allows a woman to talk about the lunch date with her friends, and it allows you to do the same with your friends. It gives both of you time to reflect on the date, conversation, ect.
My personal favorite first date is mini golf. It let's me know everything I need to know about a woman at the first moment. If she looks at me strange or doesn't want to go, then I know she isn't the kind of woman for me. I don't want some stuck-up girl who is afraid to just get goofy and have some silly fun. If she thinks it is a good idea, most do....then I know she is willing to get silly and doesn't care what others think of her. Plus mini golf gives you plenty of time to get to know one another in a public setting, again making the woman feel comfortable. There is also the "get close and show her how to putt" opportunities that women sometimes like to open you up for. If a woman does everything by herself, then you stay at a distance. But some women will play the "I don't know how to do this....show me." game. This is an invite to get closer.
Learn how to read women, which will tell you everything you need to know before hand. Study her quickly while she is helping you at her store. She will give you hints if she wants you to ask her out and if she doesn't. Let her body language tell you everything you need to know. Then ask her....you can't possibly lose. Even if she says no, then you accept her answer and tell her you are sorry if you made her feel uncomfortable. Then be on your way... no harm, no foul.
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So on one hand you have heartless woman who laughs at you, on the other you have the woman of your dreams. Let's examine the worst case first.
You ask her out, she laughs at you in front of the other customers and employees...then tells you to piss off. Ok, what next? You leave, and most likely never see the woman again in your life. Chances are you will never see the other people in the store ever again either. So what did you lose? Nothing. A few random people whom you don't know and will never see again, saw you get turned down by a woman. They will all forget about it by the end of the day, and none of them will remember you in a week. So why be embarrassed to try? You literally have nothing to lose.
The problem most men have when it comes to situations like this is their own fear. Men tend to over think situations and go much further with them in their mind. I know what you are thinking when you think about asking her out. You think of how embarrassed you would be if she said no, and how everybody would laugh at you for years to come...and you would forever be known as the guy who got turned down at the coffee shop.
Well I got news for you, nobody cares. Nobody will remember you anyway...so go ahead and embarrass yourself, nobody will remember anyway. So you have nothing to lose.
Every man has been turned down before, so it's not like anybody has the upper hand in the "asking a girl out" category. We have all been there at some point. So don't worry about it.
Another thing I would recommend, start being loud in public. As anybody who has ever spent more than 5 minutes with me can attest, I LOVE to be the center of attention...if it
is in a crowded mall, or a one on one conversation. I want ALL eyes on me. So I make sure I put myself at the center of attention. The ONLY reason I do this is because I am horribly shy. I am one of the shyest people on the planet, I am insecure, and I think to myself that everybody is laughing at me...and everybody hates me. So to fight that natural fear, I put myself out there in the spotlight. It is a wonderful feeling, trust me.
I am sure that most of the time I walk away from someone they think to themselves "Man, that dude was annoying." But I don't care....I will never see those people again in my life...and if I do, I won't remember them anyway...so it makes no difference what they think of me.
Try it sometime. When you are in a store, just say whatever comes to mind. Last week I asked the clerk at Target if she had any weed she could sell me....and when she said no, I asked her if her manager would have any on him to sell. I have answered store phones on many occasions, and I have helped customers in random stores...just for fun. A few weeks ago I talked a guy at SAMS into buying the larger entertainment center, and told him that we would help bring it to his car. Then as an employee walked past, I looked at his nametag, called him by name, and addressed him like I owned the place. "Hey Bill, this gentleman is interested in this entertainment center, could you please go get a dolly and help him bring it to his car?" The kid just looked at me oddly, then said "Sure, no problem...I will be right back sir."
It's the crazy, fun stuff that helps you overcome your inhibitions and fears. Try it sometime. Go watch Ferris Bueller's Day off. That movie helped me get out of my shell in middle school. I just said "Man, I wish I could be like that." Then I decided to just go ahead and do it.
Things like that helped me get over my fear of rejection from women. Once you stop caring what random people think of you, it is much easier talking to women.
Plus remember; worst possible out come was her laughing at you? Well, even if that is what she is thinking inside....most women won't act on it. If she is laughing on the inside, she is still going to give you some nice brush off line. Typically it is "I am sorry, I have a boyfriend." No woman is going to embarrass you...she will let you down softly.
Now that we have taken care of the whole fear issue...let's address the woman in question.
Remember a few things. Do NOT use corny jokes and innuendo, women HATE that. Every woman on the planet has heard every stupid joke, every stupid pickup line, and every stupid innuendo. So stay away from those. Just be yourself and be straight forward.
Also, be confident. Have you ever heard people talk about how a mans wedding ring attracts women? How once they got married, it seemed like women started paying attention to him more? That isn't because of the ring. It is because of the confidence that comes with the ring.
When you are single and you see a pretty woman, you can read it on your face what you are thinking. Women can practically smell it on you. When you are married, or have a serious relationship, you don't look at those women the same. You think you do...but you don't. Instead of looking at them like "Man she is pretty...I wish she was mine." With a ring on you look at them like "Man she is hot." That's it. You don't have those inner puppy dog eyes, because you don't "need" her. You admire her, and then move on.
Women pick up on that...I don't know how, but they do. When you are confident...NOT
COCKY, just confident, women respond to that better. And you can't fake it.
You can't walk in like you are God's gift to women, they will see through that too. You simply need to convince yourself that you do not NEED her. You need to have this train of thought. "If she wants to go out with me, cool. If she doesn't want to go out with me, that's cool too." You shouldn't care too much about what she will say. Don't worry about it. You know the saying never cry over spilt milk? That basically means, don't spend so much time worrying about things you can't control. You can't control what she will say, or what she thinks. So why worry about it?
Now, the next time you see her, simply ask her if she would like to go out and grab something to eat sometime. NEVER ASK A WOMAN TO THE MOVIES!!
For starters, you learn nothing about a woman at a movie. You spend too much time sitting next to someone you are NOT getting to know. Movies are the WORST first date. Lunch or dinner is usually best. I say go for lunch, it makes a woman feel more comfortable. Dinner is usually followed by the end of the date, which makes woman think of the awkward "Can I come up?" and end of first date kiss. Lunch is typically followed by sitting there talking, then the two of you going your separate ways to hang out with your respective friends. That allows a woman to talk about the lunch date with her friends, and it allows you to do the same with your friends. It gives both of you time to reflect on the date, conversation, ect.
My personal favorite first date is mini golf. It let's me know everything I need to know about a woman at the first moment. If she looks at me strange or doesn't want to go, then I know she isn't the kind of woman for me. I don't want some stuck-up girl who is afraid to just get goofy and have some silly fun. If she thinks it is a good idea, most do....then I know she is willing to get silly and doesn't care what others think of her. Plus mini golf gives you plenty of time to get to know one another in a public setting, again making the woman feel comfortable. There is also the "get close and show her how to putt" opportunities that women sometimes like to open you up for. If a woman does everything by herself, then you stay at a distance. But some women will play the "I don't know how to do this....show me." game. This is an invite to get closer.
Learn how to read women, which will tell you everything you need to know before hand. Study her quickly while she is helping you at her store. She will give you hints if she wants you to ask her out and if she doesn't. Let her body language tell you everything you need to know. Then ask her....you can't possibly lose. Even if she says no, then you accept her answer and tell her you are sorry if you made her feel uncomfortable. Then be on your way... no harm, no foul.
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